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Bachelor Party Vegas
December 30, 2009 | Tagged 2006, Adventure, Beckel Graham, Bennett Jonathan, Comedy, Faison Donald, Pastore Vincent, Penn Kal, Stern Daniel | Leave a Comment
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IMDB rating: 4.00 Plot: Five friends’ road trip to Las Vegas for a bachelor party. |
Actors: Penn Kal,Bennett Jonathan,Faison Donald,Pastore Vincent,Stern Daniel,Beckel Graham,Adventure,Comedy,
(CONT) Found condoms in drawer in my gilrfriend's room…. Says they gave them w/ birth control?
But I’m also a little angry because I have been trying and she’s been the one to come off as boring. I just don’t get it.
She refuses to truly accept any of my friends and constantly complains, even if I do right. She will rarely drink more than a beer with me, even though she recently went to New York for a business trip and got plastered to the point she basically blacked out, even though she was with no one she really knows all that well. When I complained to her about placing herself in a bad situation and disrespecting our relationship, she became mad and said she can’t see anything wrong with what she did. I explained that it’s not that she went out and drank and had fun, because I want her to do these things, it’s that she put herself in a position that just wasn’t smart. She only argued that something could happen to her anywhere, which is true, but it doesn’t help that she is 3,000 miles away in a city she doesn’t know, with people she really doesn’t know that well, and that were trashed themselves and probably don’t really give a shit about her, and that she didn’t just get a little drunk, she admittedly blacked out! Am I wrong with being concerned that she doesn’t see anything wrong with that in regards to not only myself and our relationship, but to her own personal safety as well?
Look, it was her own decision to make, and she made that very clear, and I agree with her in that way. I’m not trying to control her or anything. And I’m no saint. We all make bad decisions and do stupid things. I just don’t understand why she can’t admit she made a decision with poor judgment that totally goes past the boundaries of a relationship. When I went to Vegas for a bachelor party over the summer I made to sure to cut myself off at a certain point and to hold back to a certain degree out of respect to her and our relationship and to remain in control of myself. Did this stop me from having fun? NO.
Furthermore, she didn’t call that night after she told me she would. I was worried, not mad. Concerned, not demanding. When she called the next morning how could I not be a little upset with what she was telling me. Look at things through me eyes. Bottom line is she apologized for not calling but still absolutely refuses to see any fault in anything else. Again, I’m not trying to control her or stop her from going out and having fun. PLEASE DO! She’s 23 for heaven’s sake. Live life! All I’m saying is respect me, respect the relationship and respect yourself. Not good judgment. And I never would’ve heard the end of it had I done that to her.
It just seems as though she isn’t caring at all. Like she’s more concerned with being miss independent. She has such a cloud over her. Very naive when it comes to the real world. Grew up in a sheltered bubble. But a very intelligent person. Too intelligent to be mixed with her stubborn attitude. She just can’t see the difference between advice and being told what to do. This is her life and she lets me know it. Sigh….
Again, she doesn’t want to break up and I know how much she really loves me. She’s cried so many times over me. But I’m beginning to feel like she knows how to shed fake tears. After all, she’s a brat, the youngest out of 5 sisters. No wonder her dad is always drinking (good guy though so don’t get that twisted please). I think she just is use to getting her own way and doesn’t want to lose me, but also doesn’t want to bend for me.
We are both head strong and I can be stubborn too. We both want a lot out of this life, our own lives. But we also both want the other.
So frustrated and extremely concerned. Thanks for any advice and answers. But, please, if you’re inexperienced in this kind of thing, please observe and learn. I’ve probably already heard what you have to say. No offense.